Most of people (Including me) just Live. We just ‘get by’ because we never take the necessary action to make things happen, to seek dreams come true. I have heard lots of people say: ” I know who i am, i want that and this”, but come on!, knowing what you are doesn’t guarantee to get what you want, there must be one unique step beyond the common to take.. Simple girls are in the wedlock because they had a certain perspective, a simple strategy and a unique action they took, Shabby men have grown rich, because they have that unique perspective to money and work, they have some unique action and small choice they make every now and then that separates them from the common.
There is a certain life we all want, we want to be in that CEO chair, be in that wedlock, travel those beautiful countries, name it all, but what really makes one see these come true? I also have no answer for this.. But don’t be confused, we all struggle to be what we want to be but at times we have to design new roads other than traveling the ones we found cultivated. Does this sound like some situation you know? Yes, it is.
Successful people, have that look in their eyes: “That undiluted determination and infinite appetite for possibility”. They live in constructive flow, always looking for a way, always taking the next logical step. Did i say Logical? Yes, Logical. Logical doesn’t mean routine, but twisting and stirring things up to get some desired mixed ingredients at the end. Look, Most people want always to pray it safe, but there is no way to get Gold from the mine under ground without stains on your hands.. The logic must be there. “Take action, not just action but extra ordinary action without worrying of the unknown. It sounds too simple, doesn’t it?
So before you stop reading this and go back to your routine to blame, complain or just Live, listen up. In every situation there is always a ‘most constructive’ path to choose. Whether you’re running a business, having a conversation, dating that cutie, walking down the street and see someone you’d like to meet, or even just entertaining yourself by reading Facebook posts, whichever it is; there’s always a constructive path.
Ask yourself, “What hard and paining decision or action can I take right now that will make me more deserving and contented in my own eyes and spirit at the end?” The interesting thing is that as you ask yourself this question, some electric force like fireworks will explode in your mind and illuminate your entire being with the feeling of what success will be like if you did. Look around , the year starts , you keep there, women get pregnant and give birth, before you blink, they wed and before you finish lamenting they are a grown family.
Men start businesses in the toughest situations and before you finish your mockery to them, they have grown to big businesses. Wives love and correct their husbands and before you finish barking at yours for stupid mistakes, they are a family yet yours is a shamble-zone. Look, It’s not how perfect one starts but about how you will move correcting oneself and perfectly end. Road constructors start with a muddy , rocky ground but end up with a smooth energizing tarmac. Whats that thing you can start today painfully or in shame that will later provide contentment as time goes on? Give it a try!. .
So ask yourself the question and think about what will help you move forward with your burning desire or long fought-for dream. Immerse yourself in thought. What is it that you really want? And what choice can you make right now that will help you get one step closer, Are you always too tough and calculative, apply simplicity and see the magical results, Have you been complicating things for the cutie you are dating and things are falling apart, Yes, look through and take some extra ordinary decision, some extra ordinary action and some extra ordinary attitude.
Can you, break some rules today and take a constructive path, Take some thing extra ordinary today. There must be a simple action in some direction that you have to take. It doesn’t matter which direction, North or south, so long as you will still rotate and reach your destiny!
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Nicholas Quest - Uganda. 